gilbert:i dont know what to say. arnie:say thk u, gilbert, say thk u.arnie: goodbye. becky:no, it's not goodbye. arnie:it's good night. good night to u but not me.arnie果真傻得让人稀罕
After Bob's death, Fern chose to stay, being houseless - "If I left, it'd be like he never existed," she said, "I couldn't pack up & move on". Some who suffer from loss feel guilty about survival & regard recovery as a betrayal. The pains they cling to is an expression of loyalty. They need time with emotional support, not blame for being stubborn.
难得糊涂🙃